Rituelen & ceremonies

Mother's blessing

Not a baby shower, but a ceremony. Not for the baby, but for the mother β€” for the woman who is about to rediscover herself.

Mother's Blessing

What is it?

An old custom in a new guise

A mother's blessing β€” also known as a blessingway or mother's blessing β€” is an intimate gathering of women around the expectant mother. In a small, safe circle, her loved ones take the time to honor her, support her, and surround her with love for the major transition that is coming.

Where a baby shower revolves around the child, a mother's blessing revolves around the mother. Around her strength, her fears, her desires, and her transformation. It is a moment to truly reflect on what is about to happen β€” together, in the presence of the people who matter most.

Sabrina guides the ceremony as master of ceremonies: she holds the space, leads the rituals, and ensures an atmosphere of safety, warmth, and depth.

What it looks like

Elements of the ceremony

Every mother's blessing is unique and tailored to the wishes of the expectant mother. The elements below are a guideline, not a straitjacket.

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Opening & intention

Consciously coming together, opening the circle, and creating space for true presence.

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Flowers & jewelry

The mother is decorated with flowers. Every person present brings a bead or piece of jewelry as a symbol of support and togetherness.

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Candle ritual

Everyone present receives a candle. When the contractions begin, all the candles at home are lit β€” so the mother is never alone.

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Words & wishes

Everyone shares a wish, a memory, or a word of encouragement. Not as a speech, but as a gift from the heart.

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Music & meditation

A guided relaxation or visualization for the mother, supported by soft music and the presence of her circle.

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Connection ritual

A physical ritual that makes the connection between all present visible and tangible β€” and carries that connection into the birth.

Practical

How do you organize a mother's blessing?

You organize a mother's blessing together with the expectant mother and Sabrina. Together, you determine the location, the guests (usually 4 to 10 women close to the mother), the duration, and the elements that suit her wishes and personality.

The gathering lasts an average of 2 to 3 hours and can take place at someone's home, in a garden, or at another meaningful location. Sabrina provides the guidance, materials, and structure of the ceremony.

Would you like to organize a Mother's Blessing for yourself or for someone you hold dear? Contact us for a no-obligation introductory meeting.

€ 350

Outside of health insurance

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Baby shower

Focused on the baby: gifts, games, decorations

Mother's blessing

Focused on the mother: her strength, her transformation, her support system.

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